How Dangerous is Cyberbullying?

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 Hi ARMY!! How are you? I hope you are doing well 💜💜 

RM's album is finally out!!! What are your thoughts on his album? 

Today's topic is a request from one of my online friends. I highlighted the online as it is going to be related to social media.

In this era, social media is known worldwide. It is impossible to find someone without social media nowadays, as that is the main mechanism that we use to communicate, whether with family members, long-distance friends, lovers, and many more. We can also make new friends there.

The downside is that it is hard to get to know the real colors of someone just from social media. Someone can be a mean person in real life but act like a good person on social media. 

And some people even use social media to spread hate, such as by judging someone's appearance, lifestyle, fashion styles, spreading false information, posting embarrassing videos of someone, and more.


Keep in mind that giving good criticism in a respectful way is way different than being plainly rude. 

No matter how many followers they have or how much influence they have, if someone is toxic, there's no need to spend your time on their page.

The effects of toxic social media are detrimental. It makes you lose your self-esteem, become anxious, doubt yourself and your loved ones, compare yourself with others, and more.

Always remember, no one really shares their bad sides on social media. No one shares their blue moments on social media. Social media is not the whole story of someone's life. 

You choose how you feed your mind. Unfollow those toxic people. Follow pages that motivate you. Pages that are good for your mental health.

Be kind to yourself. Spread kind words. Don't pay attention to what people say about you. Because you are not defined by people's expectations of you. 

You are you.

 

Another side note: before you believe something on social media, make sure you search for it first before drawing any conclusions. Or just wait for the person to make their own statement. 






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