Do I Choose A Good Role Model For Me?

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Hi, ARMYs! How are you doing? I hope you're doing well, and I hope everything will be okay for you today, tomorrow, and forever 💜

 

Today's topic is about Role Model. Do you have a role model in your life? Who are they? And why did you choose that person? 

 

A role model is defined as someone that we look up to. Someone who inspires us. Someone who makes us a better us. 

Aside from that, always remember that a role model is also a human being. They are not perfect. They are not mind-readers. And they definitely don't decide your destiny.

 

So, just like how everyone around us can also be an inspiration for us, follow what you feel is good for you and leave what's bad for you. If what your role model says is good, then follow it. If not, then don't follow it.

 

You have your own right to make a choice in your journey. 

 

For example, if your teacher is your role model, and they say you should pursue acting because you're good at it, You can take their opinion into consideration, but you're not obligated to follow it if you don't feel like doing it. 

Everyone grows at their own pace. Sometimes, we make mistakes and bad decisions. We learn from it. 

 

I hope this helps. You can also share your perspective in the comment below.

 

And don't forget to follow my blog for more.

 

Borahae 💜💜💜




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